i saw some posting about true love: Toxic Love Isn’t Love At All, by Tony Gaskins Jr.

So many people have entered into a relationship where neither party knew real love. Then their insecurities surfaced and they projected them onto one another. Next they selfishly tried to make the other person fill voids in their life. Miserably, they failed. It resulted in fights and nights filled with tears. Then to top it off, they called it love!

News flash: that’s not love, that’s self-hate.

me, sometimes i think... i have an inclination for not loving my self. my mom always said i'm beautiful, but i feel so insecure about it i don't like the color of my skin, i don't like the hair growing on my skin, i don't like the eye-bag below my eyes, people say i'm not fat but i feel the opposite, i don't have a big boobs & butt.

i don't love my self. i hate that i don't love my self. how can i believe there's such a lovely person would love me as i am, if i'm (my own self) not. sometimes, the insecurities is haunting me, chasing me, and dragging me to the bad taste of love, bitter and pain.

Before you can love anyone, you must first love yourself. A part of loving yourself is being strong enough to let someone go so that the both of you can grow. Then take time to learn what real love is and what a healthy relationship is. Then, and only then, are you ready to enter into a relationship.

Love speaks languages of it’s own and pain isn’t one of them.

Tony A. Gaskins Jr.

i think, i really want to change. i want a sweet and happy love with him. i don't want him to be hurt or sad with me. so i am, i wish i will never gonna be hurt and sad with him. i'll try it, i'll try to love my self to be happy with him. because i want him to be my true love. that's all..

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